It has barely been a month since the shocking killing of conservative activist Charlie Kirk, and yet his widow, Erika Kirk, already finds herself under a microscope. She’s been photographed smiling, even laughing, during a few recent public moments. That was enough for some critics to pounce, accusing her of “moving on too fast” or questioning how she could look anything other than shattered. But Erika has finally decided she’s done letting strangers define her grief. And she’s telling the truth the way it deserves to be told.