People often say that your first truly personal milestone is unforgettable. For some, those memories are wrapped in laughter, nervous anticipation, and the quiet thrill of stepping into adulthood. For others, they are awkward but harmless—stories that later become entertaining anecdotes shared at gatherings or over coffee. We rarely hear, however, about the milestones that go wrong, the moments that leave a lasting mark not because of joy, but because of fear, confusion, or pain.
