When people wonder about age gaps in relationships, some instinctively turn to the Bible for guidance. Yet a careful reading of Scripture reveals something striking: the Bible does not provide any direct command, prohibition, or even explicit commentary on the acceptable age difference between a husband and wife. In fact, age is rarely mentioned when describing couples, families, or key figures of faith.
This absence is meaningful. In a book filled with details about lineage, heritage, and family roles, the lack of instruction on age gaps suggests that the spiritual health of a relationship depends far more on commitment, love, faith, and character than on the number of years separating two people.
The Absence of Age Restrictions in Scripture